| I’ve Known You For So Long Suddenly Feeling No Where To Belong Lost that Feeling When You Came Along I guessed it’s Farewell All Day Long |
You know, I have a hefty scenario here, which I would think might interest a few people here. Well, it’s time for me to talk about relationships again. haaa… you didn’t know it? I love to blog about this topic and try to get public’s thought about it. Besides it’s fun to learn and share with each another.
Well, I am sure some of you have this predicament during those years, that either you’ve made a slow decision or one waited too long.. Still don’t get it, basically one regrets and looks back at the time if only I had made the move, then I wouldn’t have to sit and think back all the time one wasted during those years. This is one I heard from someone during my college years. This is what she said when I finally messaged her through ICQ (yeah.. I live in the ICQ age).
“How come now only you’ve contacted me? If only you were that bold last time!!”
Okay.. I was sweating. Imagine this, I actually did fall for her during high school years, but those days.. I was never meant to pursue in a relationship. In a way, this experience has given me a little bit impression of how important it is to be bold in one’s decision. Sadly, sometimes it doesn’t always work and listening to what one had learn previously.
Since I am so nice this time, how about I give you a scenario. Debate if you like, but I would like to hear your opinions.
A guy (let’s call him Jim) was someone who had a fun single life. Though one day, he met someone who he fell for which was a girl , (call her Eve). Both of them met in a group gathering, (which usually how it all started) and slowly Jim developed feelings for Eve. But you see, Jim had trouble approaching until one fine day he decided enough is enough.. he will approach her and tell Eve how he felt. (“happy right??”)
The story doesn’t end here though. Just when he thought the day was right, Jim had it all planned out to go meet Eve the following week, he was shocked to hear someone came ahead of him a few days earlier and that person is together with Eve. Okay… Jim was suddenly feeling all awkward and all plans failed.
So now, the question to you guys/gals. What should Jim do???
Fuhhhhh… finally wrote something longer. Oh yeah… if you wanted it to be more dramatic and just love to put me in the scenario, then just substitute Jim with me and Eve with Jolin 😀 HAHAAHHAA!!! Fake OK!!
Sad to say, but if I were Jim, I’ll just move on and wish them well. If Eve really have feelings for Jim, she wouldn’t be together with the other guy…(might be secretly praying for them to break up though…lol…)
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well..he can only blame himself for being late..he cant “liu cheong keok” rite!
he will learn the lesson never to ponder too long. take action first! hehehe =P
waseh… u in love ker? didnt know also..
very secretive a you.. who’s the ‘lucky’ girl? haha. itu la… next time action fast fast go.. dont be so SLOW like uncle kura kura.. 😛
I’d say take a chance! If she’s not 100% his, go ahead and tell her how u fell… at least you won’t regret it for the rest of your life. Who knows, maybeeeee she is waiting for ur move too (while thinking her own)? XD
Yeah i agreed with what Ichi says!!! If you really love her.. GO AHEAD! Who knows? Maybe she loves you after all but thought that you were not interested so she just accept the other dude who had expressed his feelings first ler…
HIONG HIONG KHI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t do things that you’ll regret it when you are old ok.. =)
wah, why ur story so similar to my story wan, except, I played the Eve role. And I blogged about this before, when i found out about “Jim” cos he publicly announce in his blog… and I think a lot of bloggers think I’m bad for not choosing him cos he’s so “good” guy wor.
But it depends on situation and timing also. Probably Eve and the other guy have developed feelings for each other long time ago or maybe Eve was in some kind of difficulties and he was there for her and pull her through everything. If it is so, no matter how hard u try, u surely can never break through to get to her because their love is build on something strong.
But if Eve didn’t have any special event happen between them, so she just happen to hear his expression of love first, and so she think she has been single for too long and needed to try to love someone. Then i can say that Jim still have a chance to win her heart.
If Jim really want Eve, he gotta try spending time yumcha chitchat with her, find out what’s interesting behind her love story. If it’s like the 1st thing I mentioned above, then jim shud give up temporarily and wait some time. Bcos who knows if next yr she will break up with the guy and Jim finally got a chance to approach her.
Sometimes I think certain things are fated. Wish u good luck!
sorry ah, a bit too excited ahaha… so left such a long comment. =P