Yes, it’s time for me to talk on this topic once again. Well, why is it that I have lots of opinions regarding this topic. Well some even mentioned that whether am I into one, which made me talk about these topics.
Come to think of it, to me is weird. Well, weird enough for me to talk about it. Well, that’s what Daniel is, WEIRD as in a good sense. *dot* *dot* *dot* OK back to the topic.
Have you ever had that feeling that when you approached someone whom you have always talk normally and very casually when suddenly one day you can’t seem to correspond like always due to your mind playing games with you. Yes, not everyone faces this, but there are certain people who when affected by feelings, will be mumbling sometimes in their chat-ups.
WEIRD eh?? Not really! Well, my own observation has shown that it’s natural to feel nervous. Though I don’t know why I don’t face that. Either I emotionless (robot) or just that this isn’t my style. So what’s my style?? That’s for you people to find out.
So let’s say, if you’re not feeling nervous, what else? There are people who when they felt they start to love someone or rather like someone, they are careful in what they say to that person. Is like they are choosing their words wisely. Though when they talk to their friends is like another person itself. Hmmm.. pretender syndrome? Well, don’t play me out yet, but there really are people like that.
WTF is wrong? Will you go on becoming a pretender and trying to show a different impression amongst different people. Well, let me say this, if you can’t be natural, then don’t be a faker. I mean FAKER as in Fake+r not the Malay style of saying it ok!!
One person did ask me this! Why are you still single after all these while. The answer is… why are you so kepoh?? hehehe.. Guess I better sign off. I’ve got a mamak(hawker stalls) date to go. It’s nearly 9pm. Better get ready. I will talk more about it in my next post though. It’s fun studying and analyzing different people. Guess that’s why I chose the blog title WEIRD WEIRD DENIAL
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I feel insulted…sigh..:(
I strongly agree with you that we should, no matter under any circumstances, BE OURSELVES! =)
Isamu,
Don’t be..
SilverIsle,
Being oneself can generate more positive actions rather than fake before suddenly the big day
Haha, when u paktoh maybe u wont do or say the same thing liao… XD
But if u do, I will sure to remind you what u wrpte in this post, LOL
It’s natural. BTW, u should worry more about urself rather than remind me about what I write LOL x 2
Interesting writeup! Well relationships are complicated. It takes real effort to simplify it. One can initiate it but it takes two parties to make things better. Theoretically, to be successful in whatever relationships, it will be practising open & honest communication. But is sad to say that in practical, sometimes it do more harm than good. So some chose to run away, some just let it be, some deny it….well it will help for the time being but I don’t think it can last for long. But if we face the fact, we may suffer immediate consequences so how? Thank God for teaching us the power of love! It will take us our whole life to learn & appreciate it but is worth it. Well appreciate your comment. Btw what’s your opinion on the following case scenario:-
2 friends (different gender)use to talk openly & naturally but suddenly don’t know what happen, things start to change – they don’t talk as often anymore & their conversation become only 1 or 2 sentences. This person has no idea what is happening but she misses those days that they use to talk like true friend.
Well, thx for your comments regarding this topic. I must say, you’re right. Practicing open and honest communication might seem to hurt, but it’s best to know the truth earlier than to delay it until one gets married, etc.
Back to your scenario, I find it an interesting topic to talk about. Well, but to voice out my opinion, I would say that maybe it was due to different gender, one could be basing the fact that one is too close to another. They’re afraid that the other might have feelings. Another likely reason is because one has gotten into a relationship & doesn’t want to jeopardize it. Maybe the partner got into the mixup. Well, but I think should talk it over rather than keeping silent, with one party not knowing the reason why.