I was having a chat today with a female friend of mine. Well, actually I have actually talked to lots of my friends who are female. Anyway here’s one of the topic.
Imagine this! Guys pay attention to this too. It might give you some tips.
Most girls love to be chased. Yes… even the guys too. Well, we all have our happiness and glad that we are still attractive to the opposite sex. Who wouldn’t?? duh…. But just so that we can understand where this situation is going into, now take the likeliest scenario. The girl has a boyfriend! No matter a boyfriend or not, feeling of someone being attracted to you is really a great feeling. Yes, no matter how. I say usually and majority doesn’t mean all ok.. so don’t bombard me with crappy hate reasons. But if you wanted to, go anonymous. LOL!!
Now what does the guy do then? Well, seeing that this is rather a double edged sword, who knows, just join in the perception. The guy gets close to the girl, the girl is now caught in a situation where Oh My this guy is so loving, if only I have met him earlier before my bf. STOP!!! See the scenario here! If only!!! IF ONLY!! Yes, that’s what every people dream, IF ONLY! But if you think of it further,who will suffer? The gal or the guy?
Let me rephrase that, the gal who is stuck in the middle and with all her What Ifs or the guy who has decided to try his luck and might be wasted upon knowing the girl has played him out or either gets his wish! Basically I will call it a win-lose situation or a lose-lose situation. No way for a win-win! Why do I say that? This is where you people’s thoughts come in!
Who do you think suffer the most? The girl or the guy? Short Form : A Love Triangle!
ps : Anyway this is just some random thought coming from this weird thinking guy, so this scenario is not likely to be me okay!! I think randomly, just look at my other posts under Serious Talk!
How interesting… I was just reading about “win/lose” and “win/win or no deal” this morning from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
You are so right. Keep up these interesting posts!
Observation and Thinking what other people thinks is definitely one of the habit
lol… no comments, cause you already known mine XD
Constructive comments. Even if I know yours, you think other knows??
does this mean the girl’s current boyfriend isn’t treating her nicely? how come suddenly she will get the “omg this guy is so nice to me. i should have met him b4 my boyfriend” syndrome.
You know, sometimes things get unpredictable. the boyfriend is treating her nicely, but you know, humans… the grass is always greener the other side
love triangle…. ish… sounds nice, but once got into it, it means TROUBLE… Better dont b in r/ship if u’re unsure whether u luv the guy/gal.. HAHA.. 😛
A love triangle can destroy or strengthen a relationship. Sometimes making one person to determine the real reason. Well, though not always.
The party who’s more desperate is more likely to be the one suffering.
Good point. Desperation makes you want to pursue, thus if it doesn’t work your way, it’ll be painful
Basically, one has to differentiate between an emotional thinking and a rational thinking. If one is too effected by emotional thinking, then they are bound to get hurt mentally if things don’t turn out the way they would want it to.
Women and men have both emotional and rational thinking, but to what extend, it really depends on how they were brought up and what they were taught with.
When this kind of situation as the previous statements happen, it really depends on the person as to what they would choose for themselves. Whatever the results may be, the person has to be responsible for their own actions.