OK, now this is the continuation of the How Attractive Are You? Well, this is more to another case study on it. So now you are attracted to each other, what will be the next step? After analyzing some of the responses, I noticed that the ladies are more into how one felt and the chemistry between the both of them. Well, actually my question that time was kinda simple, what makes one to attract!
Shocking Announcement
Though I was amazed that there were thoughts by the guys. He he he… well, it’s kinda of a nice feeling to have both parties of the opposite sex saying what they meant! Kudos…
By the way, thank you all whom have participated in the previous debacle. But let’s get down to more serious business! Now you have finally gotten someone to get attracted to you! This is where the chemistry starts! Next, is to either keep the chemistry rolling or just to wait for the chemical reaction to die off.
Now I am Attracted to This Debacle
So what comes next? Though not everyone admits it, $$$ does play an important role for a steady relationship. Why? Cause if you have no $$$, it’s hard to sustain oneself in the coming future? Let me put out a simple scenario!
Boy met Girl for the first time. Both felt that they have so much in common. They have the ‘chemistry‘. Then Boy suddenly felt it’s time for them to move forward to the next step of their relationship. Problem is they can hardly sustain themselves as they are financially not stable. But then Boy carries on and gets married to Girl.
Does the story end here?
Nope. I will continue on. Boy and Girl are now both happily married but it seems that Boy has been lazying around and just let bygones be bygones. Girl so wanted a baby, but because of financial constraint, it won’t be practical. Yes I meant PRACTICAL! In a relationship, one does not just go for feelings only. One also needs to be practical. By the way, emotional and practicality works together, you don’t go emotional or express your emotional love without doing something practical right?
Well, that’s my sort of thought! I don’t know, I just have this revelation to write and conjure this up! My mind just thinks some stuffs and then I feel that I need to share this thoughts of mine. Don’t you think it’s practical? Well, especially if one is living in a town area. Though this might not apply to certain people as they have the help of the ruling party.
The Practicality vs Emotions Summary
So the important question is after you are attracted to each another and then you get all the fuzzy feeling and got yourself hitched. Practicality and Emotions now felt like it comes with pair.
What Do You Think?
I just need your thoughts! I know this write up is long, but it sure hits one hard on the head! Not every time I get to question my readers okay! He he he…. Till then, the next post would be of a lighter note and it might be on travels which would dwell more on photos.
If you need more thoughts from the web, here is one which actually highlighted that practicality differs from emotion.
Emotional spouse vs a practical spouse! Interestingly opposite!
Indeed a different point of view which would actually meant that emotions should or should not come together with practicality. That is how I see this but in this world, I guessed I still stand that practicality should actually come into play when you are getting serious.
In the first place before one makes a commitment to get married one has to first ensure that one is able to support a family. I know there are people out there who get married because they are in love or even worst because of an “accident”. Marriage is something sacred and needs to be planned carefully especially to make it last in the long run. Yes true money does not make the world go round but at the same time it is a necessity in todays world. Most importantly is living within your limits. Guess it’s more important to be emotionally rich compared to being cash rich. Well at least that’s just me 😀
haha, if practical of course money come first… but there are ppl who dont think practical yet able to live happily ever after one. so how? XD
Hi,
I just bought a new digital camera Nikon too at PIKOM PC fair recently. You can look at the photos that I took with a little tiny strawberry.. hehe.. We can share the experiences on taking photos.. I mean quality photos.. haha
Cheers, keeyit
true… money is very important in life. without money, you can’t do nothing for living. in the end of the day, it’s all about survival. yes you may love one person until wanna die like that, but you’ve got no money to … etc.. support each other, im sure emotionally, both party will get hurt or upset or whatever, you name it. yes, treasure the relationship… as i’ve said before, it’s all about survival and life. if both of the party has no financial support, how the hell are they gonna live on and make babies? ahem.. maybe they don’t need a baby, but they still need to carry on to live.. oh goshh.. such a long comment.. conclusion, no money, don’t ever think of setting up a family! 😀 hehehe…
money is important of coz! but that’s what we are living for right? we tried to get as high as much of educations. we work our ass off.
it’s just like a goal to human. getting as much as they can so that they can support their life and family.
but, the chemistry in ones relationship is more important. would u be happy if u are rich but dont have someone there to share it with u?
i once heard a story. abt a young guy that works in the hospital, he took care of a billionaire who was having cancer and dying soon.
he told the billionaire that one day, he wans to be a billionaire too. guess what the billionaire told him.
“i ll give you 1 billion to axchange it with 10 years of your lifetime”
money isn’t the most important one you see.
not to say being materialistic, just tat money is one of the crucial in life. if u are not financial stable, if u are not ambitious, if u are not success in career, if u are not success in academy, if you are not success in life, if u are not able to take good care of urself, how u gonna to suppose add on one more person into ur life to let u to take care ah? then both of us just suffer together huh?
bsides money is one of the impact, many factors still have to take into consideration.
and we do have fear, indecision, worry in ourself, so will stop us to move forward on certain circumtances lo
well that’s what I am tryin to emphasize, money is still crucial and one of the most important factor. *cheers*
chemistry occurs in relationship instantly, but feeling do comes n goes..
u may meet the right person at the right time, right place..
sometimes right person at wrong time…
or wrong person at the wrong time too…
with money we can do lots of thing, but u can use money to buy medicine but not health, buy a body not love…
Sometimes these things are really uncontrollable..
Do agree with your point though